Friday, April 20, 2018
The Science of Happiness
The Science of Happiness about Marriage
Most Americans still want to get married, not just because of legally binding themselves to one another, but because of marital bliss and happiness. According to the science of happiness, married people tend to the wealthier, healthier, and more sexually fulfilled than unmarried people. Of course, there are many exceptions.
Marriage can—but not should—make you happy. What you need to do is to invest a lot of time and energy into your marriage to make you happy by turning it into a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. In other words, a good and happy marriage brings out the best in each other, and thus instrumental in bringing happiness.
According to several studies, those who are wealthy and educated get divorced much more than those who struggle financially; also, splitting happens more frequently later in life than they once were. They are the realities of marriage.
A good marriage makes you healthier and happier. Marital bliss lasts longer than the happiness of unmarried couples.
The Science of Happiness about Parenting
Parenting may bring you satisfaction only if you are intentionally starting a family. But parenting is undertaking a difficult new venture fraught with many responsibilities, which are often very unpredictable. In addition, you are also forfeiting a lot of things that made you happy in the past.
Economist Andrew Oswald once said: “It’s not that children make you less happy; it’s just that children don’t make you more happy.”
But, according to a team of Californian psychologists, “overall, parents report happier, more satisfied, and thinking more about the meaning in life than non-parents do.”
Given that children create more work for those who love them, young parents, single parents, and moms may not find happiness in bringing up their children.
If you are thinking of having kids to make you happier, think again! A parent’s first job is not to raise kids, but to enjoy them.
Human happiness has much to do with human wisdom. The Happiness Wisdom provides you with the wisdom to create your own happiness recipe.
Copyright© 2018 by Stephen Lau
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